Eating in or out?

The dilemma of our dining habits leave us to believe that eating is no ordinary habit. Its a social normality. I don't think we are meant to eat alone. Leaves me reasons to believe why for those of us that do eat alone eating out has been somewhat of a comfort. Singles in America today, spend more money eating out to be around people. Restaurants and bars need the singles for repeat business. There's only so many birthdays, anniversaries, and congratulatory celebrations, a family can have and afford. Supermarkets were made for families. Costco was made for mega families and small business owners. And don't forget the homogenized idea of what our society needs as their daily dosage to start their day: STARBUCKS!

I have to admit, Starbucks and eating out were my favorite habits as well. Although I only went to people watch and mostly because I was too lazy to make my own coffee and cook my own meals. Being singles makes you seek outlets where other people linger. Its like finding a haven to be alone but surrounded so not to be completely alone.

My childhood memories are reflections around food. I can't remember anything that didn't involve food. I love going to the restaurants with my family. Eating around at the dinner table together was our designated time to see each other and question Jeopardy answers and fill in the letters with Wheel of Fortune. Eating out for my family were for special occasions. I always held being treated in restaurants to be of utmost service since we were going for a celebration. I have had tendencies as a child to be somewhat on the misbehaving side. I don't think my family were ever demanding or difficult guests at a restaurant, but I always felt like we were treated less than mediocre. Maybe that's why I treat everyone with five star service every time I serve my tables.

So my question to you is: What makes eating out special? What makes eating in special? What are the pros and cons to eating out and eating in? Is it a balancing game?

Start of an advice column blog

Do you wonder if there's an answer to every question like there's a solution to every problem?

Do you believe that the answer "I don't know" is an acceptable answer at all?

I believe the answer "I don't know" is really a yo-yo answer to buy time for an assumed answer bound to come shortly. Otherwise, you could quite say "I don't know" every time you are asked a question you don't feel like answering. It is actually quite the cop-out to be thinking and formulating a concrete and educated thought.

I came up with this blog "Ask the Girl Named Ju" after some of friends and enemies have said that I have an answer for EVERYTHING. That I have information whether its the truth or the far stretched out truth. I never like the "I don't know" answer. I mean seriously, can't you be creative and come up with something? Anything? At least for sheer entertainment?!

I have been asked questions in all subject matters: labor law, divorce questions, cooking tips, liquor and drinking, education, sex, jobs, resumes, references, emails, blogs, marketing, event planning, business operations and planning, graphic design, photography, modeling, computers, and the list goes on. I'm no expert, but I have a general sense of what all these subject matters are about and I can carry on a conversation that lasts for more than 2 sentences.

So this blog is to help me help you with any crazy information I may stumble across and give it to you. Think of me as an advice columnist. Except I won't hold back the truth nor would I hold back my tongue. You want the honest and raw truth... you are going to get it. Warning: if you can't take it - then don't ask! I'm not going to beat around the bush or tell you everything is going to be okay. Duh, everything is always okay. Only time marks the wisdom we should all acquire everyday to make the decisions we need to make. Some of us are just sleeping. Wake up!